Play is a critical part of feline behavior, serving to enhance cognitive function, physical fitness, and emotional well-being by providing an outlet for predatory instincts. Yet, several common errors are made during playtime that can compromise a cat’s welfare. By recognizing these mistakes, cat owners can create a more supportive environment for their pets, particularly during the holiday season, when changes in routines and surroundings may heighten feline stress.

Using Hands or Feet as Toys

Allowing cats to engage with your hands, arms or feet during play is a widespread mistake. Although this behavior may seem fun and cute when a kitten is involved, it can foster problematic aggression as the animal matures, resulting in injuries to humans and unclear behavioral boundaries for the cat. Instead, use purpose-designed toys, such as feather wands, motion-activated balls, or stuffed prey. These tools appropriately channel the feline hunting sequence while minimizing harm to both your cat and you. 

Inconsistent Play Sessions

Felines are crepuscular by nature, meaning they are most active during dawn and dusk. Structured play sessions at these times align with their circadian rhythms and help fulfill their biological needs. Neglecting playtime not only affects their mental health but may also lead to obesity or destructive behaviors due to boredom. Scheduling two interactive play sessions of 10–15 minutes minimum daily, even during the busy holiday season, can help mitigate such risks. 

The conclusion of a play session is as important as its content. Abruptly halting play, particularly during moments of high arousal, can result in residual frustration and hyperactivity. Instead, replicate the “capture” phase of hunting by allowing your cat to “catch” the toy. For example, during the festive period, you might use a holiday-themed wand toy and let your cat pounce on it before ending the session. This closure helps fulfill their natural hunting instincts and promotes relaxation.

Using Inappropriate or Hazardous Toys

Not all commercial or homemade toys meet safety standards for cats. Items containing small, detachable parts, sharp edges, or strings that are unsupervised pose choking or entanglement hazards. Low-grade laser pointers, if used without care, can damage feline retinas or frustrate cats by depriving them of ‘catching their prey’. Opt for durable, non-toxic toys that cater to your cat’s instinctual preferences. During the holidays, this could include festive toys such as jingling balls or toys filled with catnip shaped like holiday ornaments.

Ignoring Individual Preferences

Not all cats enjoy the same types of play, and ignoring your cat’s unique preferences can reduce their engagement. Some cats may prefer feather wands that mimic birds, while others enjoy chasing small, fast-moving toys that mimic mice. Observe how your cat responds to different toys and adapt playtime to what they enjoy most to ensure they remain mentally stimulated and content.

During the holidays, consider introducing new toys gradually to ensure they align with your cat’s established preferences and do not overwhelm them.

Overstimulating or Overexerting Your Cat

It’s possible to overwhelm a cat by playing too intensely or for too long. Overstimulated cats may show signs such as flattened ears, twitching tails, or sudden aggressive swipes. Be mindful of their energy levels and body language, and ensure that play sessions remain fun rather than stressful. Additionally, elderly or overweight cats may require gentler, shorter play sessions to accommodate their physical limitations.

A Balanced Approach to Play

Avoiding these common mistakes ensures that playtime is enriching, safe, and satisfying for your cat. By prioritizing their welfare and understanding their individual needs, you can create a nurturing environment that supports their mental and physical health. Remember, play isn’t just about fun—it’s an opportunity to strengthen the bond between you and your feline companion while meeting their natural instincts in a safe and loving way, especially during the festive season.

By Eady Sweetlove